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The last time we were together we talked about spiritual direction,
the role this plays in your lives as Lay Contemplatives. Today I
would like to share with you something of the discernment process
that goes on in Spiritual Direction, the tools that are used so as
to more clearly understand the working of God's grace in our lives.
St. Bernard has said on more than one occasion that we do not stand
still in our lives as Christians or Monks but move forward in
response to God's grace or backward in neglect of it. We are in a
living and vital relationship with God and like any relationship
worthy of the name, it develops or declines, depending on the give
and take of those involved. God is calling each one of us gathered
here into an ever deeper and thorough involvement with his own
divine life.
I had been seeking how best to follow up on what we discussed last
time when I went off to a convocation of people involved in vocation
ministry up in New Jersey. There were some 540 vocational directors
and ministers from all parts of the States and Canada. The main
topic was bridging the gap between generations, especially between
the aging members of our Communities and the younger people
considering entry into religious life. There was talk of what is
happening in the Church today, the tendency toward polarization
where on one side you have a relativism (where the sacred and
profane become blurred) and on the other a fundamentalism (where the
sacred becomes so set in concrete that it loses its vitality). To
make your way through these two extremes and not get caught in their
seductions we need a middle path of discernment, a way of
interpreting events around us that will keep us faithful to God in
the midst of all that is going on. It was even suggested that we
need to create a culture of discernment so that not only are
religious not led astray but that we can help others to respond to
all that Christ is asking of us today. For in whom alone will we
find the real meaning of our Christian life.
Out of this I thought there was nothing better that I could share
with you than some insights in what criteria one needs to use in
order to discover and respond to the working of God's grace or
Christ's presence in your lives. I think you have an advantage in
this discernment process by the very fact that you are CLC members,
persons who desire to take the Cistercian charism into the
marketplace, to allow the contemplative consciousness of monks touch
all the aspects of everyday life. As you are all too aware we are
living in a fast moving world, where you are exposed to lots of
voices, lots of influences. To feed your interior lives, to grow
spiritually where there is so much to distract you from what is
important for spiritual growth demands a sharpened sensitivity to
the movements of grace and all that is contrary to them in your
lives. Developing this sensitivity is what you and monks are trying
to do all the time. I have shared with you in the past the
Desert-father story where one of the early monks described the major
work of the monk as standing at the door of his heart and watching
his thoughts as they arise. There he will begin to recognize what
comes from God, from himself or from the evil on. The monk's life
deepens and matures as he learns to accept his own weakness and
humanity, learns to struggle with what is evil and gradually to open
himself to all that is of God. The key to all this is standing at
the door of his/her own heart, becoming familiar enough with what is
going on there so that he/she becomes truly discerning.
In your own lives, I don't know that you are any busier than monks
but you are exposed to a diversity of influences and situations the
monk is preserved from for the most part by being in the monastery.
I am not saying these are either good or bad, only that I suspect
you need to be even more discerning than the monk if you are going
to keep your spiritual lives steadily on course. The added pace of
communication today, the widening variety of interpretation of what
is communicated makes it hard for us all to maintain our Christian
focus so that it is in view of this urgent need I present some
criteria for discernment of good and evil as these touch our lives.
Criteria of Discernment
First let me mention that I will be drawing heavily on a small book
by Segundo Galilea, translated by Stephen-Joseph Ross called
Temptation and Discernment. The page numbers indicated below are a
reference to his book. Off and on in my study of Spiritual Direction
and the spiritual life I have read material on discernment but his
is certainly one of the most concise and uncluttered I have come
across. What Segundo Galilea does is take a quick look at the role
of temptation in our lives, present some criteria of discernment in
regard to temptation and then through a description of concrete
temptations show how these criteria of discernment apply. To situate
what he is going to talk about he says this: Temptation is commonly
related to sin and the tendency to oppose deliberately the will of
God who is our true good and happiness. People with a dependable and
stable spirituality generally overcome the temptation to intentional
evil without great difficulty. they recognize where the evil lies
and usually have enough spirit to reject it.
However, the invitation to a mediocre Christian life is also a
temptation. This form of temptation is characteristic of people who
are already spiritual. Mediocrity, tepidity, and stagnation are not
necessarily tied to one particular sin or another, or to a
deliberate consent to evil, although with time they can lead to
this. Neither is temptation to mediocrity explicitly perceived. It
is a subtle temptation. At first it does not look like temptation,
but instead it appears neutral or even good. What the person does or
doesn't do, the way it is done, and one's habitual attitudes appear
normal and reasonable. Nevertheless, people who have fallen into the
temptation of mediocrity, tepidity, and stagnation do not experience
true Christian fervor or progress. Faith, hope, love for God,
prayer, fraternal charity, and ministry have become set in
mediocrity. (p.9)
When I raise the question of temptation to mediocrity here I want to
be careful not to imply that this is any more likely in the world in
which you live than in a monastery. Monks know all too well their
inclination to laziness, toward settling-in and can become quite
ingenuous at avoiding the real rub of their monastic life so what I
say here is out of a sense that we are engaging a common enemy when
we deal with mediocrity.
There is, Segundo Galilea reminds us: "a more specific form of
discernment, particularly applicable to our concern here with the
subtle, deceitful temptations that lead to mediocrity. Tradition
calls it "discernment of spirits." Here it is not so much a matter
of distinguishing the explicitly evil from the good, but of
differentiating the good and what is temptation. Even with good
will, the spiritual person easily confuses the two spirits. On this
level, when we are dealing with spiritual people, the temptations
are subtle; at first glance they do not seem bad and could even be
taken as inspirations from God.
The discernment of spirits is much more complex than any other type
of discernment. It requires experience, sound doctrine and
counsel."(p.11)
This discernment has a long history, all the great mystics and
spiritual masters speak of it. And what Galilea does is draw on
texts from St Ignatius of Loyola and St. John of the Cross to
present the criteria of just such a discernment. He points out a
real difference in St. Ignatius' approach saying his discernment is
directed primarily toward making a choice in how one is to serve
Christ. The criteria that St John of the Cross presents on the other
hand, are "toward purifying and bringing to maturity a choice
already made."(p.12) Ignatius is much more into discernment in view
of active ministry whereas John+ is dealing with persons already in
the religious life who are seeking to live as authentically as
possible. They are different but complementary. What both hope to
accomplish is "a discernment of spirits that allows the soul to
adopt attitudes and make decisions leading toward a greater
surrender to God through love. Both ...present discernment as a
process of illumination that purifies and confirms one's capacity
for loving and serving God."(p.12) I see this as what your own lives
are about, a desire to use your own gifts and capacities for loving
and serving God to the full.
But let's talk about the criteria of discernment themselves. These
criteria are lined up very clearly and concisely in the book I've
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Both John+ and Ignatius "agree on a fundamental criterion:
discerning the good spirit from the bad (temptation) requires a
predisposition of interior freedom, a progressive interior
liberation from sins and deliberate faults, from inordinate
affection and attachments, and from passions and tendencies that
generally obscure and condition discernment." |
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They agree also on a second fundamental principle: "the most
subtle and dangerous temptation in spiritual persons is that which
occurs under the appearance of good." Here Segundo backs up his
criteria with two quotes from Ignatius and John+. Ignatius writes:
"It is a mark of the evil spirit to take on the appearance of an
angel of light. He begins by suggesting thoughts that are suited to
a devout soul... Afterwards, he will endeavor little by little to
end by drawing the soul into his hidden snares and evil designs (The
Spiritual Exercises, 332). John of the Cross says: "It should be
noted that among the many wiles of the devil for deceiving spiritual
persons, the most common is deceiving them under the appearance of
good rather than of evil, for the devil already knows that they will
scarcely choose a recognized evil" (Precautions, 10). |
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"The criterion of "consolation-desolation" plays an eminent part
in Ignatius' doctrine...The criterion is essentially this: What
comes from God causes consolation in the soul; what comes from the
evil spirit, from temptation, causes desolation. Consolation is
peace, inspiration toward the good, intensity of faith, confidence
in the love for God. These signs of consolation are not always
accompanied by relief felt in the senses. What gives consolation is
not necessarily what the person likes most. Interior aridity and
sacrifice at times can accompany peace and inspiration toward the
good. On the other hand, desolation is the condition contrary to
consolation: confusion, anxiety, sadness, lukewarmness, etc.
Likewise, sensory pleasure sometimes accompanies the signs of
desolation. Desolation as well as consolation are experiences rooted
in the depths of the soul, not in perceptions of the senses."
John of the Cross speaks of these same experiences in terms of
"nights" and "the aridity and trials of the dark night of the
soul...(For him), the night is essentially the presence of God's
actions, a process in which the soul, in spite of everything, must
keep itself faithful and at peace. (In this sense the night has
affinities with Ignatian consolation and not with desolation.) The
night is an experience of profound purification of spirit through
aridity and trials. In his doctrine, the Carmelite saint seeks to
help souls discern if this experience of the night is accomplishing
the sanctifying end that God requires of it, or if the devil is
taking advantage of aridity to make these persons believe they are
evil because they do not "feel" the things of God, and thereby lead
the soul to discouragement and mediocrity. John's goal is to discern
if the night is rooted in consolation or moving toward desolation,
to use Ignatian language. John of the Cross's criteria for
discerning if one is in the night that comes from God or in the
desolation of the evil spirit are twofold. In the night from God,
one maintains the fundamental choice and faithfulness to God in all
aspects of practicing the Christian life. In the desolation from the
evil spirit, faithfulness progressively declines. In the night there
is no sensible consolation, but there is fidelity. What is important
is not what one feels, but what one does." |
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Related to this, in those cases where the evil spirit disguises
himself with consolation and by that means leads the soul to
desolation, both Ignatius and John+ have a similar criterion of
discernment: "The way to discern true or false consolation is by the
fruits that ultimately prevail in the soul, and whether or not they
belong to the spirit of God."
(Ref. see today's gospel--Lk 6:43-49) |
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One final criterion on which they also both agree is this:
"Because of the deceitful nature of temptation and our lack of
interior freedom, personal discernment often runs the risk of error
even in using the traditional criteria. Therefore, in the process of
discerning matters of evident importance, one must consult with
competent people and ask their advice." Quoting Ignatius to confirm
this Segundo adds: "When the enemy of our human nature tempts a just
soul with his wiles and seductions, he earnestly desires that they
be received secretly and kept secret. But if one manifests them to a
confessor, or to some other spiritual person who understands his
deceits and malicious designs, the evil one is very much vexed. For
he knows that he cannot succeed in his evil undertaking, once his
evident deceits have been revealed
(Spiritual Exercises, 326).
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Struggles in Ministry and Prayer
I would like to give a few concrete examples of how these criteria
apply, how important it is to keep them in mind in our everyday
lives. Many of us have learned to respect these criteria mentioned
above through our own experience. How often we may find ourselves
coming away from a phase of our lives thinking we ought to have done
this or that differently, realizing how our own egos or selfishness
got overly involved and messed up something of what we intended to
accomplish. In applying the above criteria I am very aware that I
will use them differently in the monastery than you will in your own
lives. Nonetheless, I feel they are as applicable to your lives as
to mine. But some examples may be helpful.
In regard to the active side of our lives we can all fall into one
form or other of what Segundo calls "messianism". He describes it
this way as "a faulty attitude concerning God: 'I am the pilot, and
the Lord is the assisting copilot.' Those who fall into this
temptation do not ignore God nor do they fail to pray and appeal to
the Lord with problems. They do so, however, so that God may help
them in the ministry they plan and direct. Ultimately, what we are
dealing with here is incorporating the Lord into our work, and not
incorporating ourselves to the work of God. Following the
temptation, we unconsciously substitute our personal messianism for
the messianic ministry of Christ, the one evangelizer." (p. 23) I
think we all know something of this, from those times we let
ourselves get ahead of God with our plans. Often enough this is
manifest in the faulty attitude we have toward others with whom we
collaborate. We may have a hard time delegating responsibilities,
fail to really trust people except for a few who we find in full
agreement with ourselves and our programs. A failure to collaborate
in a truly inclusive way is a sure sign of being into this kind of
messianism.
In the area of prayer our temptations may often center around being
sufficiently motivated to pray. The demons can keep our motivation
on a rather superficial level so that our prayer becomes weak and
sporadic. Insufficient motives for prayer are those of a
psychological nature. Segundo describes it this way: "Too many
praying people have fallen into this temptation. Psychological
needs, not faith, lead them to prayer. The psychological needs that
lead us to prayer should not be undervalued--they can be a valuable
aid--but they are insufficient: to feel devotion, to have desire and
fervor, to cope with difficult moments that cause one to run to God,
to obtain something, and so on."(p.48) But once the psychological
mood has changed one can forget about prayer, feel that there really
is no need for God. The "ultimate, persistent motivation for prayer
and its solid foundation is the conviction that God loves us and
offers us the gift of liberating friendship."(p.48)
One could give a number of other examples of how we are tempted to
abandon our Christian commitment in one way or other. Segundo
Galilea offers a number of everyday experiences where the criteria
of discernment come into play. I highly recommend his book for your
own lives of discernment. In reality we are all making decisions
with various degrees of importance every day of our lives. If one
has a real feel of the above criteria one will find these decisions
a lot easier to make and a lot more profitable for the spiritual
life. Added to this I think the CLC groups can become centers of
discernment. When a group reaches a certain level of maturity and
inter-action, what can be raised and discussed broadens and deepens.
I feel your groups also should be places where confidentiality can
be respected so that members will feel free to raise some of the
more delicate but important issues that touch your lives. It is
amazing what can happen in groups like yourselves if this respect
and maturity is there. I mentioned last time that much is being done
today in terms of group spiritual direction. I have personally been
involved in this kind of work and I never cease to be surprised at
the variety of angles with which one can approach a particular
problem. Each one of us has our gift, our particular life experience
to bring to this kind of discernment. Each member of your groups
should feel free to raise issues that really mean something to her
or him and find just how much wiser she or he will be walking away
from an honest sharing of one another's lives.
Not least in all this is the simple fact that we all need community,
the help of others of realize our own vocation and gifts.
Discernment is what allows Christ's life to shine ever more
forcefully in each of us.
Michael Casagram, OCSO
Presented at Loretto Motherhouse to a gathering of CLC Members
September 16, 2000
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